Great philosophical debates have brewed for centuries over whether a
person can truly act in a selfless manner, or if all actions, even ones
of great self-sacrifice, are actually motivated by the individual's desire
for self-gratification. Let's leave that argument to the philosophers,
but let's acknowledge the fact that as a result of your generosity, you
may derive some personal benefit, and that's OK. In fact, you might even
deliberately plan how and when you're going to give of yourself in order
to maximize that return benefit.
Free Samples
Whether you're talking about a new flavor of cheese at the grocery store
or a test drive of a new car, the fact is that free samples help sell
products. They're especially important when the item is very expensive
or unfamiliar to the customer. Your consulting is probably a big-ticket
item in the customer's mind, and very likely unfamiliar to them. Even
with ample references, plenty of articles, and a good public speaking
reputation, it's unreasonable to expect people to hire you without some
idea what you can specifically do for them.
Now I'm not talking about formal free initial consultations. As far as
I'm concerned, that's a given for consultants. That's not generosity,
that's just standard operating procedure. What I'm talking about is what
to do when friends and family ask for your expert opinion, which will
start to happen all the time once word gets around that you're now a consultant.
There's a fine line here. On the one hand, you want to maintain the sense
of value of your time, but on the other hand, you need to share enough
to demonstrate the value of your time to others. So when people ask you
questions, answer them. A few minutes here and there isn't a big investment,
but it will have a big payoff in reputation. In terms of drawing the line
and finding good ways to remind people that this is what you do for a
living, I recommend using humor. For example, let's say you're at a bar
and an acquaintance comes up and asks you for your expert opinion. In
response, you might try saying, "I usually get paid $60 an hour to
answer those questions. Do you just want one drink's worth, or should
we set up an appointment for next week?" You'll definitely get a
laugh out of them, and maybe even a free drink! Or, depending on their
response, you can laugh it off and answer their question, but you've also
made your point.
When you do answer their questions, though, don't hold back. The objective
here is not to prove how valuable your time is, but rather to show them
that you care about helping them. For example, which mechanic are you
going to do business with—the one who just says, "You need
to change your belts", or the one who takes a bit more time to show
you that they're cracked, explain what each belt is and what the consequences
would be of it it breaking while you're driving? Become genuinely interested
in their situation and make them feel like they're important to you by
giving a sincere, well-thought response, and you'll have a great reference
and a prospective customer when the time is right for them.
Volunteer
We talked earlier about getting exposure in your religious and social
activities. Well, what better way to get exposure than by showing
what you do, rather than just telling about it? Help with your church's
web site, volunteer your financial planning services to the underprivileged,
rearrange a drug treatment center using Feng Shui principles, etc. If
you're just starting out as a consultant, you probably have more time
than money available to donate. And no matter what your talent, there's
someone in worse need than you who could benefit from your services.
When you volunteer of your time and talents, though, be sure not to get
over-committed. It's very common to volunteer for a bunch of things when
you first start out because you seem to have the time available, but once
you start getting customers, or even once you start spending 30-40 hours
a week trying to get them, you suddenly find you don't have time for all
that volunteer work you committed to. Aside from the moral obligation
of keeping the promises you've made, you'll also actually damage your
reputation if you don't follow through on those commitments. It's important
that you be dependable.
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